Use the right name and pronouns
Every creator on trans.fans has their pronouns on their tag. Use them. It sounds basic, but it is the most common complaint creators have about fan messages.
Do not ask about their "real name" or pre-transition photos. The name on the page is the real name.
Leave their body out of your questions
Creators choose what they share. Questions about surgery, hormones or "what is down there" in a first message are the fastest way to get blocked. If a creator talks about their transition, they will do it on their own terms.
Pay for what you enjoy
- Subscribe instead of looking for leaks. Leaked content is stolen income. Want to try before you pay? These are the legal ways to see trans creators for free.
- Tip for a post you liked. It tells a creator what to make more of.
- Buy the pay-per-view message instead of asking for a discount.
Messages that get replies
Be specific. "Loved the set with the red dress" gets a reply. "Hey" does not. If you want a custom request, ask about price and limits first, and accept a no.
Treat a creator the way you would want to be treated at your own job. Because that is what this is.
Where you subscribe matters too
Some creators earn more on one platform than another. If a creator has pages on both Fansly and OnlyFans, ask which one they prefer. It is a small question that shows you care.