Use a stage name everywhere
Your stage name goes on your page, your socials and your creator email. Your legal name only goes where a platform needs it for ID checks and payouts, and platforms do not show that to fans.
Check your payout display name too. Some payment services show your legal name to the sender. Platform payouts do not, but third-party tip links sometimes do.
Block your own region
Most platforms let you hide your page from specific countries, and some from specific states or regions. Block where you live, where your family lives and where you work. It is not perfect (people use VPNs), but it stops most accidental discoveries.
Strip location data from photos
Photos taken on a phone can include the exact GPS location where they were taken. Most platforms remove this on upload, but social sites and file-sharing services do not always. Turn off location tagging in your camera settings, or strip the data before sharing anything.
Also check backgrounds: a window view, a street sign or a recognizable piece of art can give away more than you think.
Keep accounts separate
- A separate email address for your creator life.
- Separate social accounts, never followed from your personal ones.
- Two-factor authentication on everything, ideally with an authenticator app.
- A password manager, so every account has its own password.
If your content gets leaked
Leaks happen to almost every creator eventually. It is not your fault and you have options. Platforms like OnlyFans and Fansly have takedown support, and you can send DMCA takedown notices to sites and search engines yourself. Keep your original files, since they prove you own the content.
If someone threatens to share your content or out you, do not pay. Save the messages, block, report to the platform and, where you can, to the police. Trans creators are targeted more often. You are not alone in this.